Thursday, April 22, 2010
Sunday, April 18, 2010
The 66% Prostitute
Interesting insight I came across and well it's not too far from what I've come to see in most women in the U.S today, not just BLACKWOMEN.
This chart is just the trunk of a tree that I might continue to fully develop. There are other branches of this tree that develop out of the trunk like:
1.Experimental Lesbianism
2.the baby momma
3.the black man hater
4.the interracial dater
Also I might address the roots of this tree like:
1.Feminism
2.Single parent homes
3.Laws, legislature
4.Television, media, etc.
5.Religion
What do you think?
Prostitute, 66%er, slut, and wife. Black women nowadays fall into these categories. Most black women have decided altogether to remove the pursuit of being a wife out of their social lives. They have opted to fluctuate between the two extremes of being a slut that desires to have sex with any man that physically/mentally pleases them and being a prostitute with money replacing the man and any man that has the right dollar amount can sexually have them. There also is the 66% percent prostitute. She falls directly in
between a prostitute and a slut. She fits the definition of "I'm not a gold digger but I ain't going out with no broke nigga." She is the type of woman that mostly deals with guys that are physically or mentally pleasing to her, but she's mostly only sexually active with the ones that take care of her financially. She has devised methods of asking/influencing men to pay her bills and buy her gifts.
Most black women start out as 33%ers in their youth, which between a slut and a wife. The 33%er just wants a verbal commitment. She seeks out establishing relationships with men who are willing to verbally commitment to a monogamous relationship with her. A woman that is in the wife category is not looking to engage in any sexual relationships until she has a full commitment, wedding ring, and everything.
This chart is just the trunk of a tree that I might continue to fully develop. There are other branches of this tree that develop out of the trunk like:
1.Experimental Lesbianism
2.the baby momma
3.the black man hater
4.the interracial dater
Also I might address the roots of this tree like:
1.Feminism
2.Single parent homes
3.Laws, legislature
4.Television, media, etc.
5.Religion
What do you think?
Prostitute, 66%er, slut, and wife. Black women nowadays fall into these categories. Most black women have decided altogether to remove the pursuit of being a wife out of their social lives. They have opted to fluctuate between the two extremes of being a slut that desires to have sex with any man that physically/mentally pleases them and being a prostitute with money replacing the man and any man that has the right dollar amount can sexually have them. There also is the 66% percent prostitute. She falls directly in
between a prostitute and a slut. She fits the definition of "I'm not a gold digger but I ain't going out with no broke nigga." She is the type of woman that mostly deals with guys that are physically or mentally pleasing to her, but she's mostly only sexually active with the ones that take care of her financially. She has devised methods of asking/influencing men to pay her bills and buy her gifts.
Most black women start out as 33%ers in their youth, which between a slut and a wife. The 33%er just wants a verbal commitment. She seeks out establishing relationships with men who are willing to verbally commitment to a monogamous relationship with her. A woman that is in the wife category is not looking to engage in any sexual relationships until she has a full commitment, wedding ring, and everything.
Friday, March 19, 2010
CHINESE FIRM GIVEN LAND DEAL IN SUDAN(AFRICA)
KHARTOUM- The chinese company ZTE recieved an allocation of approximately 10,000 hectares
(acres) of land from the ministry of agriculture.The deal aims at boosting production of wheat and maize,state media reported article link here: http://www.sudantribune.com/spip.php?article34444
there will be no such thing as 'the motherland' in the next 100 years mark my words
Africa will just be a mix of desolate wastelands and big business profit ventures from companies from countries all over the world...
the black man will have no homeland
(acres) of land from the ministry of agriculture.The deal aims at boosting production of wheat and maize,state media reported article link here: http://www.sudantribune.com/spip.php?article34444there will be no such thing as 'the motherland' in the next 100 years mark my words
Africa will just be a mix of desolate wastelands and big business profit ventures from companies from countries all over the world...
the black man will have no homeland
Tuesday, March 9, 2010
Why "Nice Guys" are often such LOSERS
You hear it all the time: "He was such a NICE Guy, and she's such a Heartless Bitch for dumping him."
I get letters from self-professed Nice Guys, complaining that women must WANT to be treated like shit, because THEY, the "Nice Guy" have failed repeatedly in relationships. This is akin to the false logic that "Whales are mammals. Whales live in the sea. Therefore, all mammals live in the sea."
If you have one bad relationship after another, the only common denominator is YOU. Think about it.
What's wrong with Nice Guys? The biggest problem is that most Nice Guys (tm) are hideously insecure. They are so anxious to be liked and loved that they do things for other people to gain acceptance and attention, rather than for the simply pleasure of giving. You never know if a Nice Guy really likes you for who you are, or if he has glommed onto you out of desperation because you actually paid some kind of attention to him.
Nice Guys exude insecurity -- a big red target for the predators of the world. There are women out there who are "users" -- just looking for a sucker to take advantage of. Users home-in on "Nice Guys", stroke their egos, take them for a ride, add a notch to their belts, and move on. It's no wonder so many Nice Guys complain about women being horrible, when the so often the kind of woman that gets attracted to them is the lowest form of life...
Self-confident, caring, decent-hearted women find "Nice Guys" to be too clingy, self-abasing, and insecure.
Nice Guys go overboard. They bring roses to a "lets get together for coffee" date. They try to buy her affections with presents and fancy things. They think they know about romance, but their timing is all wrong, and they either come-on too strong, too hard and too fast, OR, they are so shy and unassertive, that they hang around pretending to be "friends", in the hope that somehow, someway, they will get the courage up to ask her out for a "date".
They are so desperate to please that they put aside their own needs, and place the object of their desire on a pedestal. Instead of appreciating her, they worship her. We are only human, and pedestals are narrow, confining places to be -- not to mention the fact that we tend to fall off of them.
They cling to her, and want to be "one" with her for fear that if she is out of sight, she may disappear or become attracted to someone else. A Nice Guy often has trouble with emotional intimacy, because he believes that if she learns about the REAL person inside, she will no longer love him.
Nice Guys are always asking HER to make the decisions. They think it's being equitable, but it puts an unfair burden of responsibility on her, and gives him the opportunity to blame her if the decision was an unwise one.
Nice Guys rarely speak up when something bothers them, and rarely state clearly what it is they want, need and expect. They fear that any kind of conflict might spell the end of the relationship. Instead of comprimising and negotiating, they repeatedly "give in". When she doesn't appreciate their sacrifice, they will complain that, "Everything I did, I did for her.", as if this somehow elevates them to the status of martyrs. A woman doesn't want a martyr. She wants an equal, caring, adult partner.
Nice Guys think that they will never meet anyone as special as she is. They use their adoration as a foundation for claiming that "no one will ever love her as much as I do." Instead of being a profound statement of their devotion, this is a subtle, but nasty insult. It is akin to saying to her: "You are a difficult person, and only *I* can ever truly love you, so be thankful I'm here."
The nice guy -needs- to believe that he is the best person for the object of his desires, because otherwise his insecurities will overrun him with jealousies and fear. The truth of the matter is that there are many people out there who can be a good match for her. We rarely stop loving people we truly care about. Even if we no longer continue the relationship, the feelings will continue... But love isn't mutually exclusive. We can (and do) love many people in our lives, and romantic love is really no different. Though he may love her immensely, there will likely be other people who have loved her just as much in her past, and will love her just as much in the future. The irony of it all is: "Who would want to go out with someone who was inherintly unlovable anyways?"
More than loving the woman in his life, a Nice Guy NEEDS her. "She is my Life, my only source of happiness..." YECH! What kind of a burden is that to place on her? That SHE has to be responsible for YOUR happiness? Get a grip!
Another mistake Nice Guys make is to go after "hard luck" cases. They deliberately pick women with neuroses, problems, and personality disorders, because Nice Guys are "helpers". A Nice Guy thinks that by "helping" this woman, it will make him a better, more lovable person. He thinks it will give him a sense of accomplishment, and that she will appreciate and love him more, for all his efforts and sacrifice. He is usually disappointed by the results.
This ultimately boils down to the fact that Nice Guys don't like themselves. Is it any wonder women don't like them? In order to truly love someone else, you must first love yourself. Too often Nice Guys mistake obsession for "love".
Get this Guys: INSECURITY ISN'T SEXY. IT'S A TURNOFF.
You don't have to be an ego-inflated, arrogant jerk. You just have to LIKE yourself. You have to know what you want out of life, and go after it. Only then will you be attractive to the kind of woman with whom a long-term relationship is possible.
I get letters from self-professed Nice Guys, complaining that women must WANT to be treated like shit, because THEY, the "Nice Guy" have failed repeatedly in relationships. This is akin to the false logic that "Whales are mammals. Whales live in the sea. Therefore, all mammals live in the sea."
If you have one bad relationship after another, the only common denominator is YOU. Think about it.
What's wrong with Nice Guys? The biggest problem is that most Nice Guys (tm) are hideously insecure. They are so anxious to be liked and loved that they do things for other people to gain acceptance and attention, rather than for the simply pleasure of giving. You never know if a Nice Guy really likes you for who you are, or if he has glommed onto you out of desperation because you actually paid some kind of attention to him.
Nice Guys exude insecurity -- a big red target for the predators of the world. There are women out there who are "users" -- just looking for a sucker to take advantage of. Users home-in on "Nice Guys", stroke their egos, take them for a ride, add a notch to their belts, and move on. It's no wonder so many Nice Guys complain about women being horrible, when the so often the kind of woman that gets attracted to them is the lowest form of life...
Self-confident, caring, decent-hearted women find "Nice Guys" to be too clingy, self-abasing, and insecure.
Nice Guys go overboard. They bring roses to a "lets get together for coffee" date. They try to buy her affections with presents and fancy things. They think they know about romance, but their timing is all wrong, and they either come-on too strong, too hard and too fast, OR, they are so shy and unassertive, that they hang around pretending to be "friends", in the hope that somehow, someway, they will get the courage up to ask her out for a "date".
They are so desperate to please that they put aside their own needs, and place the object of their desire on a pedestal. Instead of appreciating her, they worship her. We are only human, and pedestals are narrow, confining places to be -- not to mention the fact that we tend to fall off of them.
They cling to her, and want to be "one" with her for fear that if she is out of sight, she may disappear or become attracted to someone else. A Nice Guy often has trouble with emotional intimacy, because he believes that if she learns about the REAL person inside, she will no longer love him.
Nice Guys are always asking HER to make the decisions. They think it's being equitable, but it puts an unfair burden of responsibility on her, and gives him the opportunity to blame her if the decision was an unwise one.
Nice Guys rarely speak up when something bothers them, and rarely state clearly what it is they want, need and expect. They fear that any kind of conflict might spell the end of the relationship. Instead of comprimising and negotiating, they repeatedly "give in". When she doesn't appreciate their sacrifice, they will complain that, "Everything I did, I did for her.", as if this somehow elevates them to the status of martyrs. A woman doesn't want a martyr. She wants an equal, caring, adult partner.
Nice Guys think that they will never meet anyone as special as she is. They use their adoration as a foundation for claiming that "no one will ever love her as much as I do." Instead of being a profound statement of their devotion, this is a subtle, but nasty insult. It is akin to saying to her: "You are a difficult person, and only *I* can ever truly love you, so be thankful I'm here."
The nice guy -needs- to believe that he is the best person for the object of his desires, because otherwise his insecurities will overrun him with jealousies and fear. The truth of the matter is that there are many people out there who can be a good match for her. We rarely stop loving people we truly care about. Even if we no longer continue the relationship, the feelings will continue... But love isn't mutually exclusive. We can (and do) love many people in our lives, and romantic love is really no different. Though he may love her immensely, there will likely be other people who have loved her just as much in her past, and will love her just as much in the future. The irony of it all is: "Who would want to go out with someone who was inherintly unlovable anyways?"
More than loving the woman in his life, a Nice Guy NEEDS her. "She is my Life, my only source of happiness..." YECH! What kind of a burden is that to place on her? That SHE has to be responsible for YOUR happiness? Get a grip!
Another mistake Nice Guys make is to go after "hard luck" cases. They deliberately pick women with neuroses, problems, and personality disorders, because Nice Guys are "helpers". A Nice Guy thinks that by "helping" this woman, it will make him a better, more lovable person. He thinks it will give him a sense of accomplishment, and that she will appreciate and love him more, for all his efforts and sacrifice. He is usually disappointed by the results.
This ultimately boils down to the fact that Nice Guys don't like themselves. Is it any wonder women don't like them? In order to truly love someone else, you must first love yourself. Too often Nice Guys mistake obsession for "love".
Get this Guys: INSECURITY ISN'T SEXY. IT'S A TURNOFF.
You don't have to be an ego-inflated, arrogant jerk. You just have to LIKE yourself. You have to know what you want out of life, and go after it. Only then will you be attractive to the kind of woman with whom a long-term relationship is possible.
Monday, February 22, 2010
1) Does watching your lady dress sexy in front of other men get you going? Could be just going clubbing or dinner.
2) If the flames begin to flame out in your relationship. Would you consider bringing other sex partners in the relationship if your lady was down?
3) If you thought you could handle it but figured out in the middle of the encounter that you couldn't. What would you do?
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt1326207
Cuckold: The term "Cuckold" is exclusively used for a male whose wife takes other partners.
Cuckquean: The term "Cuckquean" is exclusively used for a female whose Husband takes other partners.
http://rapidshare.com/files/35386539...2009.part1.rar
http://rapidshare.com/files/35387207...2009.part2.rar
http://rapidshare.com/files/35387884...2009.part3.rar
http://rapidshare.com/files/35388564...2009.part4.rar
http://rapidshare.com/files/35389132...2009.part5.rar
Sunday, February 21, 2010
"Date him or dump him" - how women categorize men
Five deadly dating patterns
Now that you’ve answered these eight questions, let’s dig into the specific relationship patterns your guy may be caught in. Here are five of the 16 patterns, their degrees of difficulty (10 is the most challenging) and my recommendations for handling each. The first two, “the savior” and “the coward” patterns, are easier to overcome, while the last three, “the super romantic flame-out,” “the grass-is-greener” and “the slacker” types, are in the most challenging group.
1. The savior
He is a super-duper caretaker, a Mr. Fix-It who tries to be romantic too. Your happiness is his happiness. And he doesn’t have much happiness of his own. Underneath it all he is insecure and feels not good enough — so he seems clingy and smothering.
Degree of difficulty: 4
If you are firm and he realizes he has to find his own happiness and stand up for himself or lose you, he will step up. Over time he could evolve into a great partner!
2. The coward
He is afraid of honest straight talk and very afraid of conflict. If differences come up he pulls away and prefers to communicate by e-mail or texts.
Degree of difficulty: 4
Many men have some degree of this pattern. You can break through by using positive talk, where you present your concerns in a loving, warm and clear way. Once you develop a way to navigate conflict, “the coward” can grow into a wonderful Mr. Right.
3. The super romantic flame-out
He is totally on your wavelength and crazy about you from the very first e-mail or glance at your photo. Chances are he is a serial monogamist who has brief periods of being in mad, passionate love with you, then the next, and the next one, following the path of chemistry, wherever it may lead.
Degree of difficulty: 8
Take it slow and easy to make him prove himself. If he doesn’t, be ready to bail.
4. The grass-is-greener type
He has a hard time making up his mind, like he is never sure that the job he has is really the best one for him. Online dating has made this pattern very common. Because there is such a smorgasbord of women, men with this inclination are constantly looking to see whether they can do better.
Degree of difficulty: 8
If he is very true to type, he will be mortally terrified of “settling” — as in, settling down with you. It is usually best to move on before he does.
5. The slacker
He has grand dreams and plans that have been just over the horizon for years. He may be cute and engaging as he passionately describes all that he is going to do. But this is the guy who consistently shoots himself in the foot so that he misses the finish line. He didn’t finish anything — not his degree, his new Web site, his new book, project or the very deal that will get him ahead.
Degree of difficulty: 8
Unless he has started to seriously engage in therapy or coaching, you will not be able to rescue this guy. No, not even you.
Now that you’ve answered these eight questions, let’s dig into the specific relationship patterns your guy may be caught in. Here are five of the 16 patterns, their degrees of difficulty (10 is the most challenging) and my recommendations for handling each. The first two, “the savior” and “the coward” patterns, are easier to overcome, while the last three, “the super romantic flame-out,” “the grass-is-greener” and “the slacker” types, are in the most challenging group.
1. The savior
He is a super-duper caretaker, a Mr. Fix-It who tries to be romantic too. Your happiness is his happiness. And he doesn’t have much happiness of his own. Underneath it all he is insecure and feels not good enough — so he seems clingy and smothering.
Degree of difficulty: 4
If you are firm and he realizes he has to find his own happiness and stand up for himself or lose you, he will step up. Over time he could evolve into a great partner!
2. The coward
He is afraid of honest straight talk and very afraid of conflict. If differences come up he pulls away and prefers to communicate by e-mail or texts.
Degree of difficulty: 4
Many men have some degree of this pattern. You can break through by using positive talk, where you present your concerns in a loving, warm and clear way. Once you develop a way to navigate conflict, “the coward” can grow into a wonderful Mr. Right.
3. The super romantic flame-out
He is totally on your wavelength and crazy about you from the very first e-mail or glance at your photo. Chances are he is a serial monogamist who has brief periods of being in mad, passionate love with you, then the next, and the next one, following the path of chemistry, wherever it may lead.
Degree of difficulty: 8
Take it slow and easy to make him prove himself. If he doesn’t, be ready to bail.
4. The grass-is-greener type
He has a hard time making up his mind, like he is never sure that the job he has is really the best one for him. Online dating has made this pattern very common. Because there is such a smorgasbord of women, men with this inclination are constantly looking to see whether they can do better.
Degree of difficulty: 8
If he is very true to type, he will be mortally terrified of “settling” — as in, settling down with you. It is usually best to move on before he does.
5. The slacker
He has grand dreams and plans that have been just over the horizon for years. He may be cute and engaging as he passionately describes all that he is going to do. But this is the guy who consistently shoots himself in the foot so that he misses the finish line. He didn’t finish anything — not his degree, his new Web site, his new book, project or the very deal that will get him ahead.
Degree of difficulty: 8
Unless he has started to seriously engage in therapy or coaching, you will not be able to rescue this guy. No, not even you.
Wednesday, January 20, 2010
It's not your pussy, just your turn.
Guys that don't realize the truth in these words, will always be wondering or will eventually pay the price because of ego.
Understanding the importance of that phrase will set you free of the most conniving women.
"It's only yours while you're in it, so fuck it like you own it"
Just a few words of wisdom I came across to help some of you out...
Understanding the importance of that phrase will set you free of the most conniving women.
"It's only yours while you're in it, so fuck it like you own it"
Just a few words of wisdom I came across to help some of you out...
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